The BYU-I Learning Model

I'm actually pretty enthusiastic about the BYU-I Learning Model, mainly because of self-directed learning. As a student, sometimes I feel like all I do is sit, listen, and take notes. All my self-directed learning takes place outside of and only as an addition to schoolwork. I try to be a self-motivated learner but with all the demands of deadlines and teacher expectations, I don't always feel like I can afford to take charge of my own education. What's wrong with this picture? Isn't college supposed to be all about finally working on our interests and preparing for the rest of our lives in a way that suits us individually? If that's true, then why don't we ever feel like we're in charge?